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If you (yeah you) are sitting on the group W bench, it is prolly because you do not go in the box.  That would be any box, especially a square box.  In fact, ever notice in all

the miles of endless paper busywork that we fill out over the course of a lifetime, there is a (don’t take my word for it) box for you on every one. You do not want a box,

even if you think you do.  There’s a place for every thing, every thing in it’s place, if your place is a box it would be marked YOU, and a me wouldn’t go in there.

Maybe you think you want a place to be contained, explained and retained, you do not.  You have been found wanting, and somewhere there is a box for you.

You are here tho, and we’ll leave the light on for you.  If any body says anything, just tell em I said it was OK, and i am me.

So there ya go, officially  authorized.

Uh, lessee, delicate flower, fragile egotistic  type, taking a shot with

the blogging thing now taking applications for test monkees.  No?!

The successful applicants will be naive and gullible, and very susceptible to

bullshit of mass deception, which they won’t take too seriously or get offended by.

No pay, some benefits (your imagination is required, but if you like being first,

here ya go).  Not so much a job as a contest, and you already may be a Grand

Prize Winner!  (Warning: only open to family & friends)

But what the hey, inquire within.

We all do, and nothing or no one is perfect,but finding the imperfections in the

other person is always preferable (whether there is one or not) than finding fault

with oneself.  Critterism , constructive or not, (it’s for your own good) is the

pastime for elevating your opinion to expert, even if it is bullshit and you are full of

it, leaving you blameless and too often turning the victim’s spirit of creativity

into one of resentment.

Whether there really is something wrong, or if it’s just not the way you would do

or say, and that’s definitely not the way I would do it, it doesn’t matter if the

thin-skinned takes it the wrong way.  The perspective of you slants the

view you have of reality automatically, it’s the world as only you know it, or

think you do.

It is the rare person who can get past their own view of  ” You can’t do that…”

to offer real insight, encouragement, constructive invention to someone.

Who knows how many great innovations have been lost because someone

(maybe with the best intentions) told someone else the limiting word “can’t”.

Personally,  I will usually reply, “No, you can’t, you just said so” or

(my favorite ) “too late, already did” but that’s just me.